Monday, August 25, 2008

The irony of Love

The greatest irony of love: loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right and finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life.

And sometimes, you think you're already over a person but when you seem them smile at you, you suddenly realize that you're just pretending to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again. For some, they think that letting go is one of expressing how much they love that person. In my opinion, some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else.

Most relationships tend to fail not because of an absence of love. Love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other was being loved too little. As we all know, the heart is the center of the body but it beats on the left. Maybe that's the reason why the heart is not always right.

Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love but only discover that for them we are just for passing time. While the one who truly loves us remains either a friend, a stranger or an ex.

So here's a piece of sage advice: let go when you're hurting too much. Give up when love isn't enough and move on when things are not like before. If you're with the right person, working on all three of these things is more than worth it.

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